The middle years

“Was there a year your marriage or longest partnership nearly didn't make it?”

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What it was about, the conversations you had or didn't, the version of you each of you was being.

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What kept you together, or didn't, and how do you feel about that now?

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“What were your evenings like, on the average weeknight, in your mid-forties?”

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“Was there a time when you felt fully in your stride — work, health, family, friendships all running well?”